I don’t know. I find higgmond to be overly pedantic, and I become enraged when he quotes reasonable numbers cited by experts when those numbers disagree with the half hearted estimate I just made up in my head.
Hate chit chatting in general but not knowing OP’s circumstances it’s hard to say whether his fiancé is being unreasonable. Maybe he just doesn’t spend enough time with her or they are not compatible on the emotional neediness scale…
I like to regularly remind the women in my life how I don’t like talking on the phone but they still seem to need me to endure long chats about this or that.
Having said that, I do prefer the phone to Skype or FaceTime