Dating the Female Version of Yourself

The height requirement for most women is a guy that is at least as tall as they are when they wear heels.

I think tall/short/med men are attracted to tall women too, whether they can realistically end up with them is a different story. I know most men would refused to date anyone taller than them.

I think tall/short/med men are attracted to tall women too, whether they can realistically end up with them is a different story. I know most men would refused to date anyone taller than them.

The tallest woman I ever had a relationship with was 5’11. She told me she had an ex that was 5’9 and she felt very uncomfortable going out in public with him. She vowed never again to date anyone below 6’0.

Fast forward 5 years and I just found out she got engaged to a guy that is noticeably shorter than her. From the pictures I’ve seen, he’s not an inch above 5’6. The catch is…he is VERY wealthy (8 figures total wealth). So there’s always a way for guys to compensate a shortcoming.

In my experience, the short women I’ve been with have been much more fun and sparkly than the tall women, who have tended to be more subdued and quiet. Not a hard-and-fast rule, but definitely something with a noticeable correlation coefficient.

I wonder if being louder and bouncier is a coping mechanism for the fact that smaller people might otherwise get lost in a crowd or more easily ignored. If so, it’s an effective strategy, for sure.

I’ve always wondered if the female version of a dude would have the same relative endowments, i.e. does an 8 inch pen!s = D cups, etc.?

It could also be a power couple…think Tom and Giselle…

I noticed shorter women tend to have better postures, probably as a result of trying to look taller and more noticeable. Not the worst side effect.

My posture was bad for a lot of my life, though it’s better now, thanks in part to dancing more. When you’re tall, it’s just so easy to slouch a bit to get down to where everything is (tables and counters tend to be a little too low for me) rather than constantly bend. The other issue is that if I am standing with more normal sized people, I often find I have to bend down just a bit to hear the conversation better and not get distracted by other sounds.

Between these two things, I’ve often slouched a bit, unless I’m hypervigilant about myself. I wonder if tall women have some of these issues too.

If one is short, maybe the opposite effect comes into play, helping people stand straighter.

^Are you a giant?

short women are infinitely better, busty brunettes are the best.

If there was a female version of myself it would probably be considered a transexual and then i look at my sister, and at this age of my life i am mature enough to admit this, who is very attractive.

As for personality, i would never date someone like myself. I tend to be pulled into the opposite of myself. I like god-fearing girls who are caring and nurturing and don’t have egos the size of greenies gut.

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I think it means they say “oh my god” when they are… excited.

Preach!

I do have a penchant for those types. While everyone’s oohing and ahhing about the blondes, I’m looking around for the brunettes. :wink:

Hair color doesn’t matter as long as she is carrying DDs.

I have a feeling that Giselle wears the pants. Anytime she has a ridiculous idea for a haircut, little Tommy obliges.

I really don’t think height matters in the least, I’ve dated the gamut.

@ bchad, maybe tall and loud, funny women intimidate you, but shorter loud, funny women don’t?

I’ve never actually dated a woman that would be a female version of me. I’m 6’7, 330 pounds and am probably best described as loud and arrogant. I only dated a couple women before my wife, because, and this is probably shocking, as a big fat ass I wasn’t exactly budding with confidence when speaking with women.

I had a girlfriend in college that was about 5’2. We had very little in common, and I was just a sucker for her goods. She was attractive enough, but my interest was mainly that she was willing to have sex with me.

I tried the dating path with a woman who was close to a female version of me- sarcastic, quite tall(6’3 and an olympic caliber volleyball player), very opinionated- but she was just way, way out of my league. I think she was attracted to idea of what I could become, but wasn’t willing to wait for me to get there. Good for her, because I’m not there yet.

My wife and I are nothing alike, and that’s how I like it.

“my interest was mainly that she was willing to have sex with me.”

I think this is true for a lot of people…

They might refuse to date but they won’t refuse to f*uck behind the closed doors.