Opposite attracts and it is true. The other person has to be different in a way that brings spice to the life otherwise we are better alone.
I’m 5’5 and the first thing I look in a guy is his height. Those above 6 score extra points though others with cool personalty also have a chance. Anyone below 5’6 is a NO NO.
I can be intimidated by a beautiful woman (less so these days), but I’m pretty sure I’m no more intimidated by a tall beautiful woman than by a similarly beautiful short one. Indeed, knowing that most tall women like men that are also tall, I might feel more encouraged.
So, interesting idea, but I don’t think that’s the reason.
EDIT: I looked up “tall, female, comedian” on Google to see if I might find tall funny women intimidating, and came up with the following. She’s not my type, but she is tall, and somewhat funny.
I wouldn’t have bothered to post it, except for the fact that I know the place she’s talking about, and actually have jumped from that exact spot (not on nude day, though).
Sadly, many girls think this way. But what pisses off is when she is a mere 5’2" but she will “only consider a 6’+ guy to go on a date”. WTF? I had to pinch myself not to make a snarky comment.
You have a lot to learn. There are many things that people find attractive from the opposite sex that are out of their control. Attraction is seldom a rational choice.
The other crietria you look into when it comes dating or marrying someone.
What I mentioned here is purely attraction…my subconcious mind. To be honest, I never dated a guy over 6…didn’t come across somebody to have a good conversation with.
Depends what school of thought you subscribe too i guess, Desire comes from the subconcious mind and is seldom rational, I desire pretty much every chick with a sweet rack on this planet.
Interest is most definitely a choice and has lots of rationality in it. Since attraction is a combination of both with different weightage depending on the person, for some people attraction is indeed a very rational choice.
I really wonder what it is because the majority of the guys I have dated or who really liked me were tall, from 6’1 to 6’4. I hate dating tall guys as a short girl. My cut off is 6’ now, maybe 6’1. I just hate having that much height difference, it feels awkward.
Women with big boobs have bad posture and back problems.
Short women go for tall guys because they don’t have to bend down as much to check out the guy’s package. It looks bigger because it is closer to their eyes.
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