women are fking flakes.
that is all.
In the poker game of life, women are the the flake man.
Oh please. Not all of them, and many men are just as flakey.
“Thanks for your number, babe, I’ll call you.”
What pisses me off way more is when friends flake out on me.
^ gotta keep up that drama with the friends/enemies.
I hate drama, but I noticed some people entertain themselves that way.
Ya I hate to say it, I’m just as bad. I usually get a few numbers over the weekend and never call/text… Kindof scumbag-ish, but whatever.
I used to do that some. You end up chatting with a woman and figure you’re supposed to ask for her number since you’ve talked this long, so you do, but you’re not really that into her, so you don’t call. I do try not to do that anymore.
When I was younger and living in Brazil, one woman actually got mad at me for leaving without asking for her phone number: “What???” She said, “You’re not going to ask for my phone number.” So I took it, but I sill didn’t call.
Of course, in Brazil it isn’t uncommon for women to make up phone numbers off the top of their heads if they aren’t interested. So it goes both ways.
I’d prefer the guy not ask for my number at all, then ask and then not call. It’s more straightforward that way.
Yes, I’ve learned to say “Well, it was very nice talking to you; good luck with [something she mentioned along the way].” But unfortunately I didn’t slide out of the womb knowing how to handle everything gracefully. 
It certainly would have been easier that way.
What’s this groups take on sending a text after getting a # simply saying it was nice to meet you and i wanted you to have my # too.
Personally, I’d drop the “I wanted you to ahve my # too part”. She has your number because you sent the text and can decide to use it or not anyway. Let the focus of the message be on “it was nice to meet you,” and not diluted with “maybe I can get you to take the initiative instead of me.”
The effect is stronger if it’s not done on the same night, since it suggests that she is still in your mind after you’ve sobered up and/or had some time to think about it.
Is this you?
^I just send a text with my first name so they know… charming, I know
But regarding chicks flaking, they’re weird as fuark, isildurrr… dont take anything personally. Just text her back saying, “It’s gonna be tough for you to get this D if we dont meet up”
+1 on a quick text the next day
Ok, so I went out with this HCB last night and texted her a couple hours after we were done (around 9:30 or so) and was like “hey had a great time meeting you! Hope we can do it again soon” or something along those lines. She didn’t text back though. What’s the next play? I actually like this girl so I’d like it to turn into something.
Dude, its been said many times. You gotta ignore her and make her think you don’t care. This drives em crazy. At the end of the day any decent looking chick you are in a social situation with wants to at least know she can have you. She might not actually want to be with you. Her knowing she could is usually enough. If you ignore the ladies you turn a “wants to know she can have you” into a quite probable “i want this dude”
^Troof, but remember… its an invisible very fine line between not enough and too much attention. Don’t ever tell her how you feel, always be ready and willing to walk away from her. You’re the prize. Obviously, in my other thread, I just got diitched for someone else, but she’ll never know that I had to lick my wounds, I just said “good luck” and moved on. Once you get the girl emotionally attached to you (after sexors) the power switches, but until then you have to play your cards right. Hit her up in a few days, dont insist on seeing her or let her know you how much she means to you, just treat her like a fat girl your friends are paying you money to talk to for the lulz.
“How much she means to you?”
All he’s saying is that he likes her. Not that she’s his light and the muse that gives his world meaning…