How to know if a girl likes you?

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#21

Tell her you play cricket and are related to Sachin Tendulkar…in!

#22

Is she your coworker or second cousin? I am asking because you should only go after these if they are very, very appealing.

#23

coworker

#24

If her dad gives you a large dowry, I think you’re good.

#25

Being a CA working in a big 4…she already earns the same salary as mine…moreover i am against dowry…

#26

So she earns the equivalent of $700,000 USD? She’s a keeper!

#27

RR good to see a nerd like you getting attracted to something other than your books…

BTW why isn’t inky troll banned yet?Not making any constructive contribution and just spamming the forum…

#28

That’s really funny.

Ifs she is OK looking then it could be a pump and dump strategy. You are young. Enjoy yourself a little.

#29

Shut up, RR.

#30

Haven’t thought about pump and dump yet…

#31

So what if she likes you or doesnt like you ? You will learn that this mating thing is far more random than you think it might be,there are literaly thousand things you can do to scre her perception of you or vice versa and since we dont have control over them the best thing is not to give a s**t .

However I have a strategy which has worked every single time in my work place,show her a tour of some wonderful place where the two of you can go and present the idea to her,however SUGGEST TO HER THAT SHE HAS TO PAY HER SHARE(This will make her feel safe since she thinks you are normal friends).Wether you go or not is not important as long as she accepts the offer(make the offer for the next month )because by accepting the offer she will dream of the trip.In the time you have between the suggestion and the actual trip time you can make your move.To give you a better mindset

  1. MAKE A VERY BOLD MOVE(suggest the trip without the romantic stuff):She will be shocked at your confidence and since you made her feel safe by asking to pay for her share most likely will comply.
  2. Between pahse 1 and 3 keep a close contact with her but nothing too bold,try to be as mysterious as possible without being stupid,this will cause her to make fantasises about you,
  3. MAKE THE MOVE THAT YOU ACTUALLY PLANNED FOR(Invite her to your house,go to a smaller trip,etc)
  4. If you find she is a good girl then you can proceed to a relationship,if not you have pumped her at least.

All the best

#32

Google IOI PUA. Read a list or two. In addition to Chad’s list, I’ve always found subtle body language such as if she opens/closes towards you and scratches the upper lip as pretty good signs.

#33

Who cares if she likes you? Just use the DENNIS system. Never fails.

#34

^ +100

D emonstrate Value

E ngage Physically

N urture Dependence

N eglect Emotionally

I nspire Hope

S eparate Entirely

#35

^ +1. And really go all out when getting to “Nurture Dependence”. Im thinking cultivate an ab addiction?

#36

When your parents introduce her to you.

#37

RR, please don’t listen to Isuldur. I don’t know how it works in India, but in America this would get you no where.

Don’t be a chump and buy her some super fancy meal on the first date. Make it something small that she doesn’t feel committed to for hours. Giving her an easy way to excuse herself will make her feel safe because you’re not trying to isolate or hold her down for too long. But do feel free to spend a little to show you’re generous or kind even if it’s just a milkshake while you walk around.

Make a plan within a week of asking. Waiting too long just means opportunity to lose interest. No one is going to fantasize about you for a month. They’ll probably lose interest or talk themselves out of it. Capitalize when the moment is present, don’t let it slip away.

Finally, make it clear that you’re interest romantically. Pretending you’re a friend is not the move. Ever. Period. This is how you end in the friend zone. You don’t need to say anything too crazy, but make it clear you want it to just be the two of you. She’ll get the hint.

You’ll know she likes you if she initiates conversation without it having to do with work. If she comes over to conversations that you’re in with other people and wants to join. If she notices small unique things you do and tell you they’re funny (means she’s paying attention).

#38

Do you like RR?

[] Yes

[] No

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#39

Or maybe prank call her as an angry neighbor, threatening her life. She will grow to need you. This is when you N eglect Emotionally. Continue to prank call her but you’re nowhere to be found, causing her to fall into emotional distress and realize how much she needs you.

#40

Yes to all of this.

Agree especially with the fact that you should make it clear that you are interested in her romantically. Don’t go overboard and come on like a freight train, because that might scare her off, and make sure that the time and place for demonstrating your interest is appropriate. But whenever there’s a moment to wonder “are we flirting/courting or are we just two friends doing things together,” make sure your actions are clearly on the “courting” side of the line.

Women spend a lot of time wondering “does he like me, or doesn’t he,” as long as you don’t come across as a fish on the hook who just hast to be reeled in, she will appreciate that you are not afraid to say “I like *you*.”

You don’t need to demonstrate that you’re a friend, when you are pursing a woman, because - ideally - if you are going out with someone, you are, by default, trying to be at least friends. She will assume at least that, and wonder if you are looking for more. Don’t be afraid to do things that reveal that you think she’s special. A lot of guys get hung up on that, and that’s where the cofidence part comes in.

That’s basically the trick. Let her know through your actions, and occasionally through your words, that you think she’s special and worthy of attention. What women most like (in my experience) is something to indicate that you think that she’s special, and take the time now and then to think about her.

The things that may mess it up anyway:

  • If she decides she’s interested in someone else (it may not be that you’re bad, it’s just that she likes him better, or he got there first)
  • If you are for some reason physically unattractive or unhygienic (with women, it’s generally more important to be “not unattractive” than to be “super attractive”)
  • If she’s very concerned about financial security, and you don’t measure up (usually more an issue with lower class women looking for a provider and without prospects to provide for themselves, but occasionally a problem with upper class women or social climbers who want a guy to provide the lifestyle to which they are accustomed or would like to become accustomed).