Enough hijacking this thread with adolescent flirting, get a webcam and have at it. I have a serious problem. Ever since day 15 about a week ago I’ve felt like a steaming hot pile of shit - headache, fever, intermittent explosive diarrhea, and generally feel like a shell of my former self. This could just be coincidental but I’m wondering if it could be my body revolting against the lack of dopamine. Ivan/sys, does this sort of thing come up in your research?
During this time I haven’t thought once about laying pipe, too focused on how I feel like an actual turd. In the good old days the fap used to clear my head and give me energy to do whatever was ahead for that day. Now I feel like I’m in a haze all day. Wtf is going on?
After years of “heroin”, staying clean is not a walk in the park. Not sure about your somatic symptoms, but fap-fighters do report extended depressions. There is this free space in your life now, which you need to fill somehow.
Also I do not know the extent of trategy, ie fapping once a week is not serious, but fapping daily is a problem. So maybe you were fapping like once a week and you had never ever been an addict.
And for those who were previously fapping once a week, all this bravado about abstinence is BS, you have never been that addicted. Really this thread applies to severely addicted.
If you have not been addicted don’t waste your time and energy. You are okay.
Ok regarding the shower. I think to take it right before is a mood killer, because it sort of sets the routine. Routine is boring and predictable. I believe the showers should be as discreet as possible – right before he comes over or before you go out or smth.
Regarding o – a girl ALWAYS expect it, just like you guys. She might be shy to demand it or hint on it but she always wants it. There are exceptions of course. If you don’t give it to her she, depending on personality, will either be quietly freaking out that you are not that into her, or talk to you directly. But again, a lot of girls are shy about it imo.
I am in NYC
I dunno man either
I blame the game you are playing! I don’t look like any of those actresses
Awww.
See my answer to 3. But have fun in Moscow:)
If I were your GF, I’d be pissed reading this thread. Not cool man
You know Yelp writes algorithms to determine “fake” reviews. Think we could build a model to analyze posts to determine gender? Seems Systematic desperately needs to know
Seems to be a Canadian thing too. But only because we don’t want you tracking dirt/etc all over our floors and carpet. I never understood how people could wear shoes inside the house like that.
Who knows, maybe only Americans keep their shoes on and complain that the rest of the world doesn’t?
Same with the ice. I think there was a thread awhile ago about Russians not wanting ice in their non-alcoholic beverages (NYT article). And then it was discovered that people from many other countries are the same way:)
Don’t worry man, some days/weeks are better than others. My body had a couple of tiffs with the whole thing the first week or two, especically the fever first thing in the mornings… everything cleared up and I feel like a demigod now. Just give it a little time, trust me, will be worth it.
There are some charts online about the rebooting process, where ppl rate how they feel. Its just like Drago said, if you quit heronine there are going to be some horrible days ahead of you.