I’ve been in a couple open relationships. I wouldn’t recommended it. I think openly dating multiple people is the superior option to open relationships.
whatsyourgovt:
I’m super possessive so this would never work for me but i do have a story.
One of my good friends was single at the time and on the dating scene. He started to see one girl fairly consistently to a point where it got very fairly serious. In any event, she said she was on vacation one week and he noticed she had a pic of her and some other guy on a cruise. Turns out this girl was in a ltr with some marine. My buddy, being the stand-up guy that he is, finds out who the other guy is and says they should grab a beer and quickly explains to him the situation. My buddy meets him at the bar w the intention of saying he had no idea but would want this treatment if things were ever reversed. Instead, the marine greets him with a straight right punch.Bad move, my buddy, former pro fighter from bulgaria, eats the punch and returns with his own knocking the guy down. He helps the guy up, says his gf is a whore and deserving of a man like this and leaves.
This is how i probably would handle this situation.
This is more of a cheating rather than open relationship story
ltj
May 10, 2017, 5:04pm
#23
Like i said in another topic, this place has basically become a vehicle for Igor to post links and write “tanks” in every thread. Can we not discourage actual good posts even if they might not correlate completely with the topic at hand? Tank.
hei.so
May 10, 2017, 5:11pm
#25
whatsyourgovt:
I’m super possessive so this would never work for me but i do have a story.
One of my good friends was single at the time and on the dating scene. He started to see one girl fairly consistently to a point where it got very fairly serious. In any event, she said she was on vacation one week and he noticed she had a pic of her and some other guy on a cruise. Turns out this girl was in a ltr with some marine. My buddy, being the stand-up guy that he is, finds out who the other guy is and says they should grab a beer and quickly explains to him the situation. My buddy meets him at the bar w the intention of saying he had no idea but would want this treatment if things were ever reversed. Instead, the marine greets him with a straight right punch.Bad move, my buddy, former pro fighter from bulgaria, eats the punch and returns with his own knocking the guy down. He helps the guy up, says his gf is a whore and deserving of a man like this and leaves.
This is how i probably would handle this situation.
Halfway through reading I was sort of expecting you to say that the marine would welcome the open relationship.
Life’s too short to worry about these kinds of things. If you want a committed relationship…do it…if you want an open relationship…do it…if you want to bang single and taken people…do it. If there are consequences…well YOLO and learn from it.
^Full support. to each his own.
wow the kid is still on my sack.
ohai
May 10, 2017, 6:41pm
#32
I watched on YouTube that Russian women like strong men who own them and take charge.
Sounds in line with the Russian ex who cheated on me a ton with that sort of guy (guys, at least 6)
Obviously, its why Putin is a national hero. Such a strong man and such a pure spirit. Have you seen him ride the horse shirtless?
If there’s one thing I know, you never want to be the other guy whether knowingly or unknowingly. The offended man will never see his chick as the issue, you will always be the problem in the long run. You are the lightning rod for the sheetstorm that is brewing.
Also, what Ohai said.
6? did you give her many second chances?
^Bro, i feel for you man. El macca may be right, i would have gone after all them and had my girl cousins take care of her.
^ aw man…could you imagine…she starts counting them out and has to use a second had to get to 6…that would have crushed me
