The regression sum of squares is the portion of the variance of the dependent variable that _ is _ explained by the regression. The residual sum of squares is the portion of the variance of the dependent variable that _ is not _ explained by the regression.
And when we say that the expected value of the error term is zero, we are saying that the mean should be zero and not the absolute value, right? Or is it that even the absolute value of the error term should be zero, because then, actual will be equal to predicted.