LOL i love this guy Itera - dude, you make the greatest points and they’re straight from the gut! And I must say I appreciate you entertaining this conversation with me despite the fact that it’s probably clear I have no chance of getting into research. That might be part of the allure to me, the fact that it’s so elusive. One thing you have to remember, I gave up a good (back office) salary to take a shot at franchise ownership with my pop, and I’m taking a 50% stake in an existing business where I expect to not make my initial investment back for at least 2-3 years. Why? Because I was bored at work and wasn’t stimulated by it.
It’s not about the money. And I’m not afraid to be broke. Or to fail. I have no mortgage and no kids. If all else fails I have no problem working 3 jobs to survive. I’ve done it before when putting myself through undergrad. I don’t care about prestige or what others think. People think I’m crazy for quitting my job - I don’t care. Maybe this is a terrible attitude to have, but nothing can change that. Trust me, I’ve tried. But that might also be why I give it a go at these left field ideas that I’m likely ill-suited for.
Itera said: think about this: why would someone who would be a great mentor in investing take their time to do that for you AND pay you a salary?
My response: I’m not looking for anyone to hire me. Not just yet. I’m looking for a mentor. A lot of successful, intellectual types love to give back, in several shapes and forms, and I guess I had this idea that I can find someone to take me on as their charity case. Maybe an hour a week, or two weeks, or an hour a month. Just start with a ticker, or an industry, and work forward from there. My proposal would be, you give me your time and access to your brain and in return, I owe you a debt of gratitude and a favor at some point. But no sexual favors, my girl, God bless her heart, would not tolerate that… Thing is, I’d have to convince someone to do this, and would have to network quite a bit, which I’ve done and continue to do, and actually I have someone in mind (head of research at a hedge fund) but I’m carefully trying to put together my proposal for the best chance of him accepting the proposal. Any wannabe mentors out there, let me know! I can promise to be a top-notch student, but that’s all I can promise.
And I’ve already started to plan my days to come to try and get familiar with the markets again, free stuff at first like library books and WSJ, online resources, and free NYSSA events. I will eventually have to pay (unfortunately) for some modeling classes as well, though not excited about the expenditure.
I agree Itera! It’s a long and difficult journey, and an uncertain one. Success is not guaranteed at all. In fact, in my case, failure is probably the higher probability. I realize this, and it sucks, but I can’t change that. And I’m hoenst with myself I’m likely not a self-starter, no. That might crush me in the end if you’re right Itera. I don’t really know.
What a wonderful thread this has been for me. I hope you guys are at least entertained by my predicament and continue to contribute on this thread with your thoughts!