When I first turned 21, I did a strip club tour with a group of friends. A buddy of mine would look the girls in the eye for the majority of the little dances they do for your $1. He thought he got more out of them that way when he got them for a lap dance. I always had a hard time getting my eyes off the “target” areas.
Later, when I got to know a few strippers, they told me that the “eye” guys were always the suckers that wanted to talk during lap dances. Very easy to bleed dry.